All Entries Tagged With: "Losing"
A Trader’s 5-Step Recovery
December 7, 2011 at 9:03 am
re-cov-er-y (noun) – the regaining of something lost or taken away;Â restoration to a former or better condition;Â the extraction of useful substances from waste.
Traders have to go through recovery on almost an ongoing basis. Sometimes it’s from a paper-cut-sized hit to the account, while other times it involves coming back from an amputation of sorts – whether it be a major drawdown to actual or emotional capital.
Either way, without the ability to recover, you’re done. (Obvious alert: that’s no place to be).
There are steps to recovery which should be taken, and I want to discuss some of them. By no means is this an exhaustive list, so please add your own in the comments, but here are a few which I think are necessary on the (sometimes long) road back.
Admit it. Face up to what it is. Call it a slump, call it shattered confidence, call it a big scary market monster. Whatever “it” is, you have to get it on the table so you can deal with it.
Seek help. Maybe you shouldn’t go it alone. Without some accountability, it’s easy to relapse. Find a mentor or some coaching to get you back on track, and add some skills to your repertoire. The fact of the matter is that left to your own abilities as they currently stand, you may very well be facing a similar situation again.
Take inventory. Take an inventory of what’s left of your capital, both in terms of cash and confidence. It may be that you simply don’t have enough left to consider a comeback right away, so perhaps you incubate for awhile and prepare in other ways for your eventual return. Or perhaps you assess your situation and realize you have more than enough to start the process.
Get uncomfortably familiar with the cause. What was it that put you in need of recovery to begin with? Overconfidence? Lack of respect for the market? A series of small mistakes which compounded your problems? Understanding the root cause of your wounds, even if painful, will help you prevent it from happening again in the future. After all, you’ve already paid the tuition, you might as well get the lesson.
Get back in the saddle. The last step in the sequence is to return to trading and begin rebuilding. Start thinking about what that’s going to look like for you and how you’ll avoid the same pitfalls which got you this time around. Visualize yourself back in the routine again, making plays, staying disciplined, and having success.
** What are some steps you think are necessary to begin the healing process following a big trading loss?
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Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
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How to Think About a Loss
October 26, 2011 at 12:58 pm
We all lose here and there, it’s just part of trading. You can’t avoid it, but that isn’t the issue. Where many traders struggle is how to handle a loss gracefully.
Instead if equating a trading loss with personal failure, shift your mentality for what a loss means.
Does it mean you’re stupid? Not necessarily.
Does it mean you were wrong? Yes, in at least one way.
Does that mean you will never get it back? Absolutely not.
Losses are an event, yes, but it’s also a distribution from your account. Consider them a cost of doing business as a trader. Brick-and-mortar stores have overhead, but as a trader, the biggest portion of your overhead is the losses you take.
When businesses cut costs, they’re reducing their overhead as much as possible to fatten their profit margins. Do the same with your trading. Reduce your ‘loss overhead’ by accepting a loss quickly and moving on to the next trade.
It’s much more fun to always be adding to your account rather than seeing funds flow out, but as soon as you start viewing trading losses as something impersonal, it’s going to change your perspective in a very helpful way. Rather than fret over them and allow losses to cloud your thinking or alter your mood, viewing them through the proper lens will help you more quickly get them back and then some.
Like it or not, trading is a business…how are you managing yours?
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Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
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Can You Trade Full-Time? Part 3
October 6, 2011 at 8:07 am
Be sure to check out Part 1 and Part 2 of this series if you haven’t already, as they offer some important groundwork for this series.
We’ve arrived at Part 3 in the 4-part series on “Can You Trade Full-Time.” This is a subject I’m asked about all the time, so I thought you’d find it helpful to compile this list of considerations as a resource to you as you wonder whether you’re equipped with what it takes to make it.
Keep in mind that the things I’m sharing here are my opinions of things I think are needed in order to trade full-time, but your unique situation may differ.
Here in Part 3, we’ll discuss how to avoid the mistakes that trading professionals avoid.
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Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
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Intelligence is Only Part of Trading Success
August 24, 2011 at 10:46 am
In a recent conversation with a trader who had just accepted some small but frequent losses, it came to light that his emotions were flaring. Taking a small loss here or there doesn’t affect him, but taking a few in a row does.
What’s interesting though, is that it wasn’t the money that bothered him so much. It was the fact that he came to doubt his intelligence after a string of losses.
Every one of us has been there, and it’s no fun. Losing is a part of trading, and each of us knows that, but how we cope with those losses will determine how quickly we rebound from those hits that inevitably come.
Here are 3 steps I suggested he take…
1. Trade smaller. If you’re getting frustrated and angry, it’s a sign you’re placing too much importance on each trade. The way to diminish that is by reducing your size for a little while so that trades take on much less importance and you’re simply focusing on managing them properly.
2. View losses differently. Losses aren’t fun, but when viewed in a different light, they can be seen as helpful. They will make you better, because you scrutinize your mistakes and either learn something new or get reminded of a lesson you’ve previously learned. Losses also free up your capital and attention to shift toward another trade which may quickly overcome that loss.
3. Expect losses to happen. This isn’t negative thinking, but rational thinking. Begin each day knowing you might take several trades, and some might be losses. That makes it easier to accept them when they happen and it allows you to keep moving without letting emotions take over. Expect winning trades as well. And be sure you’re stopping out for smaller losses than the winning trades are providing. That will keep you net profitable and that’s the aim.
Remember, being right every time is not the aim of trading, so get out of that mindset as soon as you find yourself in it. Intelligence is only a small part of trading. Trading is a numbers game, and it’s one that requires you to deal with emotions rather than allow them to flare. Those who have an edge and who can manage emotions (tied to both losses and gains) are the ones who will succeed in trading.
What else would you tell this trader?
Trade Like a Bandit!
Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
Be Imperfect!
June 24, 2011 at 9:43 am
Society trains us to want to be perfect. And in many endeavors, that’s something worth striving for. Surgeons, for example, can put you at ease when they tell you they’ve performed this operation hundreds of times without any problems. Students with perfect grades get academic scholarships, saving boatloads of tuition money. And the list of examples of the benefits of perfection goes on and on.
From our appearance to our performance, someone else will always be a little better, and it causes us to try to perfect whatever it is we’re doing for the sake of improvement (or keeping up). Unfortunately, it carries over into our trading – much to our detriment.
You see, when it comes to trading, there’s no room on the perfection list. And that’s a good thing, because perfection isn’t required for success.
The very worst traders try to be perfect. They either stay sidelined in search of a perfect strategy (backtesting galore), or they practice trade until they make $1M in hopes of duplicating it live, or they simply refuse to lose.
Perfection in trading is paralyzing, both to you and your account. Growth is prevented, confidence suffers, and you feed the very traits you should strive to shun.
I’ve said before that in trading, you succeed by not failing. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have failed trades – quite the contrary. Expect losses! As negative as that might sound, it will mentally prepare you to accept them gracefully and move on to the next trade which might be a far bigger winner).
The best traders are imperfect – by choice. They grow from mistakes, not successes. Lose small and face the music when your current approach isn’t working. That shows true confidence. By definition, imperfection brings opportunities for growth – both in your account (lose small and win bigger) and in your abilities as a trader (learn new methods). But you’ll miss out if you’re not willing to bend.
Trade Like a Bandit!
Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
Are You Willing to Lose, Part 2
June 2, 2011 at 10:27 am
Yesterday in Part 1, we discussed the idea that while losing is a part of trading, it still must be done the right way. We also talked about how a fear of losing can characterize our trading if we allow it, much to our detriment if left unchecked. However, as Mark Ritchie’s comment emphasized, a willingness to lose is fundamental to turning a profit.

I'm not a cat fan, but this one has guts!
The ‘food for thought’ question I left you with was along the lines of “what characterizes your trading approach: fear or confidence?“Â Hopefully that’s a question you’re willing to honestly answer, so let’s move forward.
The best traders don’t allow their fear to dictate their success. Yes, they walk the line well. They respect the market and they keep risk in consideration, but they’re confident enough to act when their signal comes along and they move with conviction. They put in the work, identify their plays, and stick to those which are suitable for them. They know what they can lose, and then they go for it.
So, how do you get to that level?
Take Good Trades
Simple enough, right? But I should explain…
To take good trades doesn’t mean take ‘winning’ trades, because of course you can’t know (unfortunately) how they’ll turn out ahead of time. A crystal ball isn’t needed. What it means is take the trades which suit you, which are within the confines of your trading plan. If you don’t have a plan, stop reading this and go make one (anything is better than nothing). You can’t throw caution to the wind or lower your standards, but if all else is in line, then hit the good trades without hesitation over losses. If you’ve defined your risk and have a safety net in place, then be willing to deploy that capital.
Change With Care
Periodically, we all desire some sort of change. Out of impatience, we too often approach those situations the wrong way, and we should be careful.
For example, the trader who casts his fear aside and is willing to lose must still approach his trading the right way. For those aiming higher, a desire to make more needs to outweigh a worry of losing more, yes, but too many approach this adjustment from the wrong standpoint.
In his book, One Good Trade, Mike Bellafiore discusses the trader who wants to learn to make $5k by first losing $5k. Going out and losing $5k doesn’t mean you’re now prepared to make $5k, so don’t prove your willingness to lose by rushing out and widening your max loss – that’s not a solution to anything but taking bigger rips to your account.
Being willing to lose is about showing up prepared to trade confidently and responsibly, not recklessly.
Watch the Right Numbers
Trading is about two sets of numbers: the prices on your screens, and your P&L. Too many traders place their primary focus on the wrong numbers (P&L), and give their leftover, secondary attention to prices.
And they pay for it, too.
Some simply hide their P&L numbers, either for their account or for open positions in order to prevent giving their attention to the wrong numbers. Your job is to stay focused on the game, not the scoreboard!
The condition of your P&L will have some influence, yes, but make sure you’re not trading solely in response to it. Doing so will lead to costly mistakes, such as trying to go bigger when you’re struggling in an attempt to make it back. Instead, focus on the price action for clues – it will tell you what you most need to know.
Here’s the bottom line:
We all know we must accept risk in the markets in order to play and profit, but how willing are you to lose? It’s a question only you can answer, and for too many, their unwillingness to lose will ironically leave them either sidelined in fear, or fully-involved as a stuck holder in a position they should have long since closed. If you’re going to play this game, get your head right and show up ready to play – win or lose.
Trade Like a Bandit!
Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast
Are You Willing to Lose, Part 1
June 1, 2011 at 11:26 am
In Jack Schwager’s classic The New Market Wizards, Mark Ritchie delivers a very simple but profound statement on the subject of losing:
“…I don’t think you can make money unless you’re willing to lose it…my willingness to lose is fundamental to my ability to make money in the markets.”
Losing is a part of trading, there’s no getting around it and everyone does it…but not the same way. The best traders lose like a winner.
Too many traders fear losing, and to be honest I’m often guilty of it too. Sometimes it’s a healthy fear and at other times a limiting fear, so it’s an ongoing issue each of us face.
The wrong kind of fear keeps us on our heels. It might cause us to dart out of good trades too quickly, cutting the legs off our winning trades (get it, so they can’t run?). Or it may leave us sidelined, unwilling to participate even when we sense the presence of opportunity. Sometimes we respond to our fear by trading too small, or simply by becoming far too stressed over trades which are small enough to be insignificant.
For example, you know that when you’re trading small enough that a trade’s outcome (win or lose) will result in virtually no change in your account value, and yet you’re fretting over it, it’s a clear signal that your fear is too great and you’re in no shape to be trading until you get a handle on it. I can say that because I’m familiar with the feeling!
Your Trading, Defined
The title of this post isn’t “Do You Want to Lose?“ It’s “Are You Willing to Lose?“ There’s a big difference, so let me be clear. This isn’t an approach where we face the markets each day hoping to shrink our account. Rather, it’s a mindset whereby we play only with that which we’re able to lose, and nothing more. It’s a mentality where we trade in such a way that we evaluate our risk, do our best to contain it, and then move forward boldly. We aren’t held back by worry over what might happen.
Tomorrow we’ll wrap this up with Part 2, but until then, let me give you a question to consider:
How would you characterize your own approach…are you defined more by your confidence or by your anxiety?
Trade Like a Bandit!
Jeff White
Producer of The Bandit Broadcast




